• I Will Remember That I Am Strong — Lydia’s Story

    I wonder what she is doing right now. Is her sweet mama holding her, kissing her cheeks and telling her how much she is loved? Is her daddy blowing raspberries

  • My Choice

    You see, I've never met my dad, even to this day. My mom is mentally disabled and did not and does not have the mental capacity to take care of

  • Dear birthmom,

    Dear Birthmom, I want to encourage you today about the decision you have made. Having made this choice I know some of the feelings you may be experiencing. It is

  • Open Adoption – Strange Friendships and the Urge to Run

    Open adoption can feel like a strange relationship, and it’s a lot of work. During my pregnancy, I met with the adoptive couple monthly. Each time, we shared a meal

  • Meet Kelsey

    Meet Kelsey! She's a friend of BraveLove's, a champion for birth moms and our newest contributor to the Being A Birth Mom column... Hello ladies! My name is Kelsey. I

  • “We all deserve to have peace with this choice; the choice we made in love.” — Kelsey’s Story

    In May of 2015, I graduated from South Dakota State University, full of ambition and ready to take on the world. However, I was broke, so I moved home to

  • Nacole 6 Years Later

    At BraveLove, we're dedicated to erasing the stigmas of adoption, and a big part of that involves sharing stories that honor birth mothers. As we all know, adoption impacts people

  • 16, Pregnant and Nervous — Emily’s Story

    Leading up to my daughter’s birth, I was so nervous. I knew placing her for adoption was the right decision for me and for my baby. I also knew it

  • Sarah’s Story

    When Sarah was 24, she found out she was pregnant. She always wanted to be a mom but was overcome by fear when this reality came so unexpectedly. She knew

  • “I had no family support”

    I am a birth mother to two beautiful children. Full-blooded siblings that live together with the same wonderful couple. I was 18 when I had my daughter, and I had